A Beginners Guide to Sex

Mutual Masturbation You both rub each others genitals. This can be a lot more fun if you put a little baby oil on your hands first. Start by caressing, especially the head. If you or your partner is uncut pull the skin down and gently rub the exposed head, or pull the skin up and down rapidly. Stroke the shaft, caress the testicles and slightly below the testicles between the legs. Make a fist around the shaft and stroke up and down, slowly at first and then faster and faster. This can be a lot of fun in the shower together too, using soap, but use a baby soap. Lots of hugging and kissing is recommended. Oral Sex Also known as a Blow Job - Make sure you are both clean. Wash the genitals first. Have your partner lie flat on his back. Masturbate his penis until he is hard. Pull the skin down if he is uncut. Gently lick the head, using the BACK of your tongue. Never use the front because this can hurt if he is very sensitive. Lick all the way down the shaft and around the testicles. If you are adventurous, lift his legs and lick his butt, be sure he is clean though! After this take the head of his penis in your mouth. Slowly lower your head and take as much in your mouth as you can comfortably. Press your lips around the shaft firmly and raise your head until your lips are almost off his penis. Then lower again. When you are down as far as comfortable try licking the head with the back of your tongue. Continue raising and lowering your head keeping your lips as tight as possible around the shaft. To avoid having him sperm shoot in your mouth (unless you want him to), alternate using your mouth and your hand, or place one hand firmly but gently around the base of his penis with your thumb over the tube in the middle of his penis. When he cums, you will feel it with your thumb. You can try to raise your head then, or better still put your head down all the way and it will go in your throat instead. You can both do oral sex at the same time if you want. To do this, try lying side by side with your faces at each other's crotch. Or, he lies on his back and you get on your hands and knees over top of him with your face at his crotch. Dry Humping This is where he lies on his stomach or his back, with his legs together tightly. You cover your penis with baby oil and place your erection between his legs, just below his pelvis. Thrust in and out between his legs like intercourse. Anal Sex You must be very careful with this. To prepare, spend some time gently working your finger into his anus covered with Vaseline or K-Y jelly. Let him get used to the feeling of your finger in him. When he is comfortable, you lie on your back and cover your penis with lots of K-Y. Then he kneels over you, facing away from you, with his bum over your penis. You hold your penis straight up, and he sits on it. He should go VERY slowly at first. If it becomes uncomfortable have him stop and take deep breaths and relax. When he is on your penis completely, support his back as he lies back on top of you, and bring his legs forward. Now have him raise his legs and put his feet on your knees. Gently roll over onto your side. Now you can thrust in and out. Go slow at first. Later when you are more comfortable doing this, you can try other positions. Doggy is where he starts on his hands and knees and you kneel behind him to enter him. Or, have him lie on his back with his legs raised up and spread open, and you kneel in front of him to enter him. This last one is NOT for beginners, but it lets you hug and kiss while you have intercourse.   The five stages of puberty for guys Normal Age Range: 9-12, Average: about 10 Male hormones are becoming active, but there are hardly, if any, outside signs of development. Testicles are maturing, and some boys start a period of rapid growth late in this stage. Normal Age Range: 9-15, Average: 12-13 Testicles and scrotum begin to enlarge, but penis size doesn't increase much. Very little, if any, pubic hair at the base of the penis. Increase in height and change in body shape. Normal Age Range: 11-16, Average: 13-14 Penis starts to grow in length, but not much in width. Testicles and scrotum still growing. Pubic hair starts to get darker and coarser and is spreading towards the legs. Height growth continues and body/face shape look more adult. Voice begins to deepen (and crack). Some hair around the anus grows. Normal Age Range: 11-17, Average: 14-15 Penis width increases, as well as length. Testicles and scrotum still growing. Pubic hair begins to take adult texture, although covers a smaller area. Most boys have first ejaculations. Underarm hair develops. Facial hair increases on chin and upper lip. Voice gets deeper and skin gets more oily. Normal Age Range: 14-18, Average: around 16 Nearing full adult height and physique. Pubic hair and genitals have adult appearance. Facial hair grows more completely and shaving may begin now or soon. During the late teens and early twenties, some men grow a bit more and develop more body hair, especially chest hair.