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Homosexual A person that is primarily attracted (emotionally, spiritually, and physically) to persons of the same sex. Gay Usually refers to a homosexual male, but can also refer to a homosexual female, as well as the gay community in general. Lesbian A gay female. Bisexual A person who is more or less attracted (emotionally, spiritually, and physically) to persons of either sex. Some believe that we are all bisexual to a certain degree. Hetrosexual A person that is primarily attracted (emotionally, spiritually, and physically) to persons of the opposite sex. Straight Another term for heterosexual.   Transgendered Relating to transsexuals, transvestites, cross-dressers, or anyone who tends to blur traditional gender boundries. Transsexual A person who strongly identifies with the opposite gender, usually includes a desire to actually be the opposite sex. Most often refers to a person who has had a sex change operation. Transvestite Someone who derives sexual pleasure from dressing in clothing generally identified with the opposite sex. While the terms homosexual and transvestite have been used synonymously, they are in fact two different terms. The majority of transvestites are heterosexuals. Crossdressing that does not include any sexual charge is usually referred to as DRAG. Hetrosexism The societal assumption that everyone is heterosexual, and that heterosexuality is somehow superior to homosexuality. Homophobia An unrealistic or irrational fear of homosexuality. Homophobia is perpetuated by the negative stereotypes and misconceptions that surround the subject of homosexuality. Homophobia can lead to hatred, discrimination, and violence against homosexuals. * Both heterosexuals and homosexuals can be homophobic. Lover Many gay and lesbian people use the term lover (for lack of a better word) to refer to their spouse or partner, much like a heterosexual would use the term husband or wife. The term lover can be misleading however, since the many heterosexuals reserve the term lover to describe an exclusively sexual relationship, affair, or fling. SIGNIFICANT OTHER & PARTNER are also commonly used. Fucking The act of inserting a penis into an anus or vagina, followed by movement which results in orgasm. Sucking This is where you take a penis into your mouth and using your tongue to stimulate the shaft and head of the penis of your partner which will result in orgasm. Bareback The act of fucking without the use of condoms Fisting Insersion of a hand, fist, and/or arm into the anus/anal canal Vanilla This is simply basic sex with no extras. Normally vanilla sex can just include, kissing, cuddling, fucking, sucking, dry humping, etc.. No kink is involved. Kink There can be many things kink can relate to, but in general kink is anything other than what is listed in vanilla above, it can be bareback, fisting, s&m, etc...