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How To Kiss
 Kissing is
probably the most physically romantic two people can get. There really is
no wrong way to kiss. The thing to remember is that everybody kisses
differently and different people prefer different ways of kissing. Some
people, believe it or not, are appalled at the idea of French Kissing or
using your tongue while you kiss. While others can't imagine kissing
without using your tongue. The thing is to try kissing that person a few
times before deciding how you and your partner prefer kissing and to get
used to the way that person kisses.
A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This
will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing
situations. The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations,
such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe
sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip, then trying the other two
types. And don't just leave kisses to the lips. Kiss their cheeks, their
chin or their eyelids. This can be very seductive and romantic.
 The
perfect kiss is one that is done with someone you really care about. There
is more caring and sincerity in a kiss with someone special than with
someone you hardly know, although a really good kiss can certainly bring
two people closer together.
A lot of people have been writing to us on how to overcome the fear of
kissing someone. Our answer would be to not kiss that person right away.
Wait until an attraction builds between the two of you and a romantic
situation evolves. Go out with the person a couple of times before having
that first kiss.
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath
This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on
your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath. If
your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make
sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't
take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have
something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips
You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue
over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that
tends to make the kiss too gooey. And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless
you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips
makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you
and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning
Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt
your head slightly to one side. If you don't, don't worry about it. Your
partner will still tilt their head slightly so your lips meet on a slight
angle or they will kiss you straight on. If you can see which way your
partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite
direction.
Close Eyes
Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave
their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner
prefers, it is best to close your eyes. Kissing with your eyes open,
looking into one another's eyes while you kiss, can be very erotic and
some people find it quite enjoyable. You may want to try kissing this way
once you're more comfortable kissing your partner.
Open Lips
Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do
not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press
them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow,
circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips
This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of
opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a
good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also
makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're
nervous.
Hands
There are many ways you can use your hands during a kiss. The most popular
way is to put one hand on your partner's waist and the other one against
the middle of their back. Other ways to use your hands are to cup your
partner's face in your hands (very romantic!), put them around your
partner's neck, put them around their waist, hold your partner's upper or
lower arms gently, run your finger's through their hair, or just hold
their hands in yours.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your
tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience.
There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips
Open your lips "slightly" more than you would during a regular
kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue
Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not
force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with
their tongue by circling theirs with your own, running the tip of your
tongue along theirs, darting your tongue in and out of their mouth
teasingly, or running the tip of your tongue along their teeth or roof of
their mouth. If all else fails and you're still unsure of what to do, just
use your tongue the way your partner uses theirs. Have fun with it!
Explore!
Lips
You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip
of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just
using the tip of your tongue.
Kissing Glossery
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing
with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their
top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back
to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly
can create a wonderful effect on your partner. While suck kissing, gently
bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your partner. This
kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times
before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or
the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly
approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips.
Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
Vaccuum Kissing
This is a playful kiss. While in an open-mouthed kiss, suck in deeply
so you're sucking the air from your partner.
Cordial Kissing
Take a sip of your favorite drink, either alcohol or something sweet,
and then when your lips meet pour the drink in your partner's mouth. Only
take a very small sip.
Butterfly Kissing
Put your eye really close to your partner's cheek and flutter your
lashes upon their skin. You can also do this on their lips.
Melt Kissing
Pass and ice cube back and forth in mouth while French kissing
Marathon Kissing
See how long you can kiss for (try 5 - 10 minutes straight)
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